Would you rather lick your pussy juice off his lips or his cock?

Yes.

Ask us anything. Make it filthy.

Are you going to post a video to go with those amazing pegging pictures? My boyfriend reads your blog and it would help me talk him into trying it. Thanks, I love the site!

Perhaps that'll happen someday. While we've taken a bunch of photos, which run the gamut from teasing to full-on anal, our videos are still in the early stages. So in time, perhaps.

In the meantime, keep talking to that bf of yours, I'm sure your enthusiasm to fuck his ass will eventually win him over. Then use LOTS of lube, to make sure that he has a good time and wants it again and again!

Thanks for the kind words about the blog!

I finally coerced my bf into giving me his ass for my bday. What should I respectfully do to keep that small potential window open?

YES. YES. YES.

That being said, if it's a first time, be gentle and don't go full steam ahead on him. I'd suggest starting with a blow job and the slip of a well lubed finger. If he likes it, add a second.

Don't let him cum though, you need to move on to tonguing his ass. The first time Violet did it, I could fully tell that she had pleased as many women with that tongue as she has. Holy FUCK. Get in there and show him a good time. But don't abandon the cock. Use a hand to stroke away.

Then move back to the fingers, or perhaps a plug and get on top of him while he rides out the sensations. As you're fucking him, ask him how good it feels, and how good it would feel if you had him bent over the bed, stroking his cock while you fucked him.

As he comes, REALLY, REALLY HARD (like, animalistic HARD here, not even kidding) let him know how badly you want to do it all again, and to elevate it next time.

Assuming it all went well, he won't be saving that ass for special occasions anymore.

Oh, and have fun! It might be butt stuff, but it's still just sex. Get on it!

A Different Kind of Work-Out.

Uh, full disclosure: a gym made this video? It is not porn. I mean, depending on your definition. I don't think that their intention was for you to wank to it, but I would be pretty fucking surprised if no one did. Just, holy wow, woman. She is gorgeous, the video is gorgeous, and just wait for the close-ups on her stomach muscles while she's upside-down.



For those of you who are wondering, this is why I do yoga. Nowhere near this level yet, but I swear to you, if and when I get there, you will get one of these - Violet-style (naked).

Do you rim each other?

You must be new around here...

Ask us anything. Make it filthy.

Violet Showers.

Every morning, Violet showers.

Some mornings, I document these showers.

This was one of those mornings.

Variety is the Spice, But Salt is Still the Best Seasoning.

Every day, we get emails, tweets and comments from all of you lovely readers. We wanted to share a recent email that came to us, with a very interesting and sharable question, and our answer to follow:

"Just discovered your blog. It is awesome, and so very encouraging for this twenty-something who until recently thought you could have an outrageous sex life OR a wonderful loving relationship, but not both at the same time. Glad to say my lovely boyfriend has put that idea to rest.

My question is this: do you worry at all that you'll run out of awesome new sex to have? I didn't actually like sex until my current boyfriend, and we have done more new sexual things together than I thought was ever going to be possible. We're exploring things and enjoying the adventure, but I worry that by racing through our wishlists, there will come a time when even hanging upside down with hooks through our faces will seem boring.

What are your thoughts on that? I see that you two have wonderful sexual appetites and that you are clearly committed to exploring and developing your sex life - do you worry that you might one day reach the end of the sexual road?

Thanks for any help you can give!"

Violet, have you ever thought about getting your nips pierced?

Guys, don't take this the wrong way: definitely not. To be perfectly honest, I'm not really into piercings at all. I think they can definitely look cool on some people, but they're hard to pull off. Not to mention the possibility of losing sensation near the piercing area if it's done incorrectly. We wouldn't want that, would we?

Tattoos on the other hand... I kind of want a million.

Ask us anything. Make it filthy.

Food Porn (or, How We Learned to Stop Worrying and Just Embrace All of Our Fetishes, Sexual or Non).

This may seem like it comes completely out of left field. But if you know us at all, you know that we're food people. Most of our life here in Brooklyn is driven by food. Cocktails. Speciality markets. Farmers' markets. And the sheer quantity of like-minded people that surround us at all times.

Our pleasures lie in the most basic pleasures of life. We like good food, good booze, good sex and good art. And we don't ever tire of any of them. Constantly searching for the next amazing thing to eat, that booze we hadn't heard of yet and just how to use it, a cooking technique or ingredient we've never encountered, a record that knocks us on our ass.

Savage Indeed.

This week's Savage Love (if you don't know what this is, WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR LIFE???) hit on a subject very near and dear to our horny little hearts.

Since we're anonymous, we're constantly discussing the idea of not being anon any longer. Or how many people know about our blog despite our being anon? Do any friends or family members know about this? If so, would they say anything? Should they? Or would their knowledge of it just show how pervy they are?

Wonder who knows whose pussy/ass combo this is...?

To be fair, you might be thinking we're super overreacting, but given how many people read this blog each day (humblebrag, maybe, but there are a LOT of you out there, THANK YOU!!!), the fact that we've been on Fleshbot a number of times, and some of the people that have blogged, retweeted or linked to stories about us, this concept is not that far off.

So while we debate constantly about this issue, it's nice to sometimes leave it to the lovely, wonderful, hilarious and amazing Dan Savage (we really like him, can you tell?) to set the record straight in case of such an occasion:

How are you supposed to react to the discovery—entirely accidental—that your youngest brother has a "femdom" relationship with his wife? I stumbled over my brother's "anonymous" sex blog. It goes into detail about the "domestic discipline" she subjects him to: humiliation, spanking, "ruined orgasms" (whatever that is!), cuckolding. There are no names, but there are pictures. Their faces are blurred out, but I recognize their living room, their bedroom, the necklace my sister-in-law wears, my brother's chin and hair. If I recognized them, other family members might. What do I say?-Biggest Big Bro 

Besides "Hey, bro, I'm kinky, too!"? (You "stumbled over" your brother's kinky sex blog? How'd that happen? Did he leave it sitting in your driveway?) If you can't bring yourself to say that, BBB, you say nothing and trust that more-distant, less-kinky family members are unlikely to "stumble over" your brother's anonymous femdom blog anytime soon. And even if they do, they're probably not familiar enough with your brother and sister-in-law's home, jewelry, chins, etc., to recognize him.

See? How fucking awesome is that? Thanks Dan!