On the We-Vibe.

From SporePrint, a lovely new reader with a great tumblr and very sexy taste.

"I have a question I’d like to hear you answer on the blog, if you want. You mentioned the We-Vibe in relation to pegging (of which, yay!). What is your take on it in general? I’ve been looking to get one for my partner, but it gets mixed reviews online, and she’ll throttle me if I add another toy that doesn’t get used to our overstuffed toybox."

By now, it's fairly well documented that Violet enjoys wearing the We-Vibe under her harness when we get into some pegging play. It tucks in there wonderfully, though there are definitely issues with it, mostly related to it being difficult to adjust, speed-wise, once it's all up in there.

Whatever you decide, enjoy this photo.

Violet, how do you and Rye keep the romance alive? My girlfriend and I never seem to have time for each other or be in the mood for sex. How can we get the spark back between college and everyday life?

Let's be real for a second. Rye and I keep the romance alive by keeping open lines of communication about our needs, wants, fantasies and desires. But also, we're best friends. We really, really enjoy hanging out. Exploring the city together, exploring new food together, exploring each other's bodies together. Together is the key component here.

We have very busy lives. But at the end of it all, we prioritize each other, not because we're supposed to, but because we want to.

When you say you never have time for each other or aren't in the mood for sex, that's a red flag. Not being in the mood for sex, totally fine. We're often not in the mood for sex. In fact, we spend more time NOT having sex than we do having sex. Sex is just a part of our relationship. An important one that we really fucking love, but still just a part.

The more troubling aspect is the not having time for each other. If you're not getting what you want out of this relationship, and need to keep working to make that spark happen, maybe it's an indication of a larger problem. If you're reading our blog, you're probably horny. You're likely jerking off. And you're probably in the mood for sex. But just not with your girlfriend?

Our suggestion, talk about it. TALK. TALK. TALK. What's the root of this problem? And if it's just that you've grown apart, then that's fine too. Go forth and put your genitals in/on other people. Life's short, after all.

But if this talking helps you to address issues that are keeping you distant and aspects of yourselves hidden from each other, then that's awesome too. Work on it. But you'll never be able to move forward unless you communicate.

Good luck! And thanks for the question!

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Do you prefer to have him finish inside or pull out?

All of the above, really. I just like that he finishes.

More often than not, if we're fucking, and not jerking off for each other, or putting our mouths on each other, then he's finishing inside me. But I'll take it anyway I can get it and love when he pulls out and spills on me. On my pussy, my ass, my tits, my back, my stomach and sometimes, put that shit on my face!

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Do you enjoy pegging? If so, what kind of strap-on dildo and harness do you use?

Someone does NOT read our blog, eh?

http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com/search/label/Pegging

See you in a few hours, probably quite turned on.

And we use the Jaguar harness, which is the best fucking harness EVER. Combine that with the Mistress dildo (which we're currently pretty into, until we work our way to bigger) and you've got the makings of a delightful evening.

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Are there any toys designed for Rye that Violet has tried out on herself and vice versa?

Totally!

Let's see, we always use the Hitachi Magic Wand on Violet with one of my Tenga Eggs covering the top. I also use the same configuration sometimes.

Violet also got a little g-spot plug to test drive, which has become exclusively a butt plug that I go for time and again. We also both use the NJoy Pure Wand in any orifice that will have it.

Do you ever look at your own videos and does the fact that you're showing yourselves off but still keep some parts (faces, tats) hidden turn you on even more?

To be perfectly honest about it, we don't really watch them all that much once they're completed (we usually watch them about 100 times during the edit and find the finished copy, without fail, totally sexy). Or at least we haven't yet. Maybe the further removed we become, the more they'll do it for us. It's weird, because we set out to make the kind of sex video that we wanted to see, but it's ultimately for others in our same boat. So we're left still searching for that type of porn we want all over again.

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And it seems like the things not shown turn you on, amiright? We keep it that way for a few reasons, but yes, the curiosity about our anonymity is definitely an aspect of it.

Cut, Brooklyn.

Remember last weekend, when we introduced you to our new concept about revealing a bit more of our other passions? And how they're all interrelated? Oh, you do? GREAT. Let's get right back into it.

So, Brooklyn. You've probably heard some things. Many great things. Probably some bad things. The bad things you've heard are definitely true. Fortunately, so are the great things. Because of this, we mostly love it here.

What's undeniable is that there's a movement going on here. The model for the creative industry is shifting. The model for music, for film, for publishing, for advertising. The old models are dying, if they're not already dead. Because of this shift, however, something fresh is taking root. People are returning to the idea of handmade objects. Of crafts. Of creating their own products, and ultimately, businesses, born around this central conceit.

Cock in Hand.

We are sure that you've noticed: we've been going on and ON about how much we love ourselves a lazy, simple, possibly hungover roll in the hay. We believe you deserve some proof. Here's a bit of what it looks like from (mostly) my perspective.

Because of your anonymity, do you have any close friends that you are able to talk sex with or would you be instantly outed? BTW, I love the anonymity, it makes it so much better!

We're completely anon, which means not a single friend knows that we have this blog. If we were to guess, some people might not be too shocked to hear it, while others might be pretty shocked.

We're a really everyday couple. We really fucking like each other, love to hang at home and cook, have a very active social life and all that. But we also do this on the side.

That being said, we do talk sex with several of our friends. And most of them know that we're really into fucking each other, which makes a lot of our married friends pretty jealous as they're for some reason not really fucking all that much. So we wouldn't be "outed" for talking about sex, since sex is just sex and it wouldn't lead people to assume we also make videos and put photos up and share stories.

We've met exactly two people that know us as sex bloggers, both of them amazing women. We might add more people to that list, but it all sort of depends. It's definitely fun to be able to talk to people about what we do and why, but being anon on the blog and leading this fucking crazy and surreal double life is also kind of a blast.

Glad to hear the anonymity makes it even better for you, there's a point in the direction of pro-anon for us! Thanks for the great question and thanks for reading!

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In 3 words can you share your most perverse fantasy?

In bar bathrooms.

And only three words is ridiculous! Did that even come across as anything? We're prolific, what can I say?

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