Extra Long, Plenty Short.

Winter is cold.

Fortunately, we have fun ways of staying warm. Extra long sweatshirt, anyone? Or, just long enough, really.

This is a new pullover, and will be a frequent look during these chilly months. Especially given the easy Rye access.

Is the dildo you use in the pegging tips series the "Siren" from Babeland? I just bought my first dick this afternoon and it just charmed me, perhaps it looked familiar? PS, I've been a fan since last February and I couldn't be happier for all the awesome!

Ooh. No, we started with the medium size Silk, which was far too small to get any real hardcore fucking going on. After a few sessions, we upgraded to the Mistress, which is just a bit smaller than your Siren. Ours is 6" by 1 1/4", where you're has the extra 1/2" in length and 1/4" in girth.

The wife, with the Mistress.

Perhaps that's our next choice!

Thanks for reading, we're super happy to have you. And congrats on your first dick, enjoy it!

If sex was ice-cream you both have tried it with chocolate sprinkles, hundreds and thousands, caramel sauce and chunks of oreos, and sometimes all at once. Every once in a while, do you ever crave it just really, really vanilla?

TOTALLY.

In our interview with WHACK! Magazine, we were asked a similar question, to which we responded that we often have regular old spooning sex, or even missionary.

While we enjoy our adventures, sometimes the standard p in the v is just as good as it gets.

Oftentimes too, we'll just masturbate for each other, which is, I guess not too vanilla, but to us it is. So that happens a fair bit.

Anyway, all this is to say that we're not just exclusively sexual adventurers. Being open and honest about sex sometimes means telling the other person, "Can I just put my pussy on you?"

Come Again?

This might not get you off, but it's in our wheelhouse. Well edited, funny, a bit sexy, all that. After all, this is the most memorable orgasm scene in the history of orgasm scenes, is it not*?

ooh aah from ant1mat3rie on Vimeo.

What Should I Play?

A frequent discussion during weekend mornings.

The first record plays as we make coffee.
A debate begins about what to eat.
What to do.
Where to go.
What to eat.

And then, record over. Both sides spun out all too early.

What should I play?

What kind of lube did you use for your first forays into anal? What is your recommendation?

We actually JUST answered this for another reader.

http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com/2012/01/new-to-anal-what-kind-of-lube-do-you.html

Interestingly, a reader commented that they go for olive oil, though it's not recommended for use with a condom, as that shit will BREAK.

Go forth and don't multiply (because you can't have babies from the butt)!

Ask us anything. Make it filthy.

An Interview with WHACK! Magazine.

Chris Madsen, a freshly indoctrinated writer for WHACK! Magazine, approached us to do our first big interview. We were pretty lucky as first time experiences go. No blood on the sheets, woke up feeling little to no regret, not pregnant...

Here's his lovely intro:

There is no shortage of blogs, tumblrs or wordpress based websites out there in internet land where couples expose their sex lives for the world. A quick peek-a-boo around the tube sites and you will find thousands of videos with couples documenting their bedroom romps and willingly uploading them for the self-gratification of the hungry masses. 

So why on this porno-filled planet is one married couple in their mid 20’s from Brooklyn, New York garnering so much attention from Camille Crimson, Cindy Gallop and many others? Their blog is blowing up, as is their Twitter and Tumblr, not to mention their videos on Xtube. Still, most people don’t even know who they are—they choose to stay anonymous and are only known as “Violet + Rye.” 

From the very first glance at Violet + Rye, you can tell you’re not dealing with average amateur sexploits here. There is a much higher quality to the videos and photos than most. But is this performance theater? An oversexed couple living the XXX dream? What is it?

His Hit List: The Updates.

With some recent conversations with very interesting people and a fucking awesome interview with Chris Madsen for WHACK! Magazine, we've been thinking a lot about our origins. Specifically, we've been thinking about our Hit Lists. Today, we revisit both of ours and see how far we've come:


I love it when you objectify me. Making me jerk off as you watch from the other room, telling me to put a plug in my asshole while I watch you wreck yourself, treating me like the pervert that I am.

• Done, many, many, many times over.

Talk dirty. We both know you already do, but I need more. And dirtier. Tell me what you want in the most graphic terms imaginable. Yell out your fantasies while we're fucking, as wild as you can get. Act like the slut that I call you.

• We could always be talking dirtier, couldn't we?

Her Hit List: The Updates.

Last week, a twitter pal and writer for WHACK! Magazine interviewed Rye and I. He brought up a question that we've been lucky enough to be asked by some of the most amazing people, recently. That question: what made you start Uncommon Appetites? Of course, there is our perpetually open and honest dialogue about sex and sexuality. There is also our tendency to rub our bodies against each other more than most people. But really, we can't talk about the genesis of our blog without talking about The Secretive Slut. Stumbling upon their blog, most especially their Hit Lists, is what really inspired us to belly up to the keyboard and type this thing out.

For those who haven't heard us tell this story already, a hit list is a way to tell your partner things you may not be comfortable saying in person. To put down on paper some of your deepest desires, dirty or sweet, and demand that they take action in fulfilling your every request. We couldn't resist. We loved the idea and it was the beginning of this amazing journey. Thinking about our hit lists so much lately made us think we should check back up on them. What you'll find below is a progress report. Where we've been, where we're going and the orgasms in between.

Another Reason to Want a Fireplace.

Could someone please bring me a glass of water? I'm panting. I'm swooning. I'm having a spell.

Everyone's favorite, orally-fixated redhead - the amazing and delightful Camille Crimson - gave us all a present to begin 2012 with our eyeballs falling out of our faces.