How many partners have the two of you had before you got together?

Well, Violet's had that question before, in a slightly different format. Her response, 5 women, 14 men. Which makes me number 20, a nice even number. You can see more here:


As for me, considering penetrative sex only, which is how V's list was tallied (pussy eating for ladies), Violet is number 2. I had some rocky years in high school, started late, then stuck with the same partner through to my mid-20's.

So yeah, pretty similar numbers, just off by a zero.