You guys know what we're all about. We're all about rubbing our bodies on one another. We're all about talking about it, sharing it and (we hope) helping others do the same. But also, we're all about honesty. And guys? Sometimes you feel like a fuck, sometimes you don't.
We've had a few conversations lately, with each other and with friends, about expectations. We think there is probably an expectation that we bang each other in every moment of spare time we have. Listen, we don't want to freak you out, people who have expectations, but we do have to feed and bathe ourselves occasionally.
But seriously, we go through phases just like everyone else. Often, we enjoy using toys/hands/mouths to get each other off, we never even get to the straight P in Vagee Sex. Sometimes it's all blowjobs all the time. Sometimes, we're in the mood for anal. Sometimes - like lately - we're in the mood to drink a few cocktails after work, strip our clothes off, hop into bed and get down to some hardcore sleeping.
We all have dry spells. They don't always last a long time. They don't always indicate that there is a deep and serious issue of communication (or lack thereof) lurking below. Sometimes we just get tired, stressed out or busy. Those times are always brought to a close by one of our libidos going, "Heeeeyyyyyy." This time, it was Rye. He woke up yesterday morning with a rather serious boner. After I left for an early morning at work, he rubbed one out. He made sure to mention this to me during my long afternoon at work. I came home and we had our aforementioned bang-fest (accidentally?) in fairly plain view of our large, open window. We then went relatively quickly back to the hardcore sleeping I mentioned above, where I had exclusively sexy dreams. One in which I came 100% hands-free. You see how these things snowball?
What we want to know is: how do you break out of a rut? Is it a conversation that does it? Someone coming home with a flushed face and a hard cock? Do you rip clothes off? Do you snuggle? Do you make out? We love to know what makes you guys tick and what pulls you back into the world of sweaty skin on skin when you feel out of it. You know... for inspiration. And boners.