Toying with the Aneros.

I've been putting off a review of the Aneros Maximus for quite some time now. During that time, I've tested the toy again and again. Each time, I end up with the same result, this thing is the fucking tits.

Psst, New Trailers.

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Rye, Pegged.

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4th, Part 2.

Where were we?

This is where we left off, right?

Oh right, the 4th...

After a day in the park, we landed back at home. We had a party to go to later, but we needed some decompression time, from our decompression time. Mostly, we mean sex. And snacking. But mostly sex. So yeah, things went DOWN.

From the Mailbag: Making Love vs. Fucking.

Violet, what's your take on the difference between fucking and "making love"? Do you ever ask to "make love to me"? And is it possible to "make love" anally? My girlfriend says no, as it's a more submissive act, and raunchy. Great blog, thanks! 

The Gentle Introduction of Ass-Play.

My boyfriend is very willing to explore sexually with me, and loves me for the fact that I am so liberated and willing to try new things. However, there is one thing he is very shy about: his ass. Ever since he went down on mine, and took my anal virginity, I have been dying to give him that same pleasure. However, he is one of those men that, to a certain extent, equates anal penetration with homosexuality in men. I have told him I want to go down on his ass, and he is willing to let me, although I haven't done so yet. He knows I would like to try pegging, but I think he is a little afraid of it. Any ideas on how to gently ease him into ass play? 

Formspring Time!

Do you two sext each other?

Oh man, do we ever! A recent example of what I sent to V while she was in a work meeting:

"I am looking forward to you going to the gym, getting all hot and sweaty, coming home and letting me dive right into that salty sweetness."

And some photos:

 

A Bit of Advice: On Foursomes and Pegging.

Hi folks, love your kinky sex fun...was wondering if you ever have a foursome with another beautiful couple like you two? I'd sure love to see that activity and jackoff to it too. Anyway, keep fucking and letting us watch, gives me a good boner...

No, we most certainly haven't involved anyone else. Not to say that we never would, but if we did, it would likely be a third, not a third AND a fourth.

Do you rim each other?

You must be new around here...

Ask us anything. Make it filthy.

What kind of lube did you use for your first forays into anal? What is your recommendation?

We actually JUST answered this for another reader.

http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com/2012/01/new-to-anal-what-kind-of-lube-do-you.html

Interestingly, a reader commented that they go for olive oil, though it's not recommended for use with a condom, as that shit will BREAK.

Go forth and don't multiply (because you can't have babies from the butt)!

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Her Hit List: The Updates.

Last week, a twitter pal and writer for WHACK! Magazine interviewed Rye and I. He brought up a question that we've been lucky enough to be asked by some of the most amazing people, recently. That question: what made you start Uncommon Appetites? Of course, there is our perpetually open and honest dialogue about sex and sexuality. There is also our tendency to rub our bodies against each other more than most people. But really, we can't talk about the genesis of our blog without talking about The Secretive Slut. Stumbling upon their blog, most especially their Hit Lists, is what really inspired us to belly up to the keyboard and type this thing out.

For those who haven't heard us tell this story already, a hit list is a way to tell your partner things you may not be comfortable saying in person. To put down on paper some of your deepest desires, dirty or sweet, and demand that they take action in fulfilling your every request. We couldn't resist. We loved the idea and it was the beginning of this amazing journey. Thinking about our hit lists so much lately made us think we should check back up on them. What you'll find below is a progress report. Where we've been, where we're going and the orgasms in between.

New to anal. What kind of lube do you recommend?

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Pegging Tips: Volume 4.

Back again, for the final piece to our pegging puzzle. You've read tips one through three, we hope. If not, get yourself familiar, then come on back. Final five, y'all...

16. Once you've gathered yourself from the killer orgasm you just had from that We-Vibe in your dripping wet pussy, you're gonna want to objectify him. While you push into him, slow and steady, make him play with himself for you.

"Stroke that cock, you fucking slut."
"I want your pre-cum, get me some."

Pegging Tips: Volume 3.

If you somehow didn't remember the first two pegging tips posts, go remind yourself. Then come back, we're jumping right in.

11. Assuming he took those two fingers like a champ and was begging you to "just fucking FUCK him already," you're ready to go. Make sure that his asshole is nice and lubed up. Then slather that anal lube all over that big dildo of yours. With him on his back, tuck in close and SLOWLY slide the tip in.

12. There are two gatekeepers in asshole. The first is the opening itself. You can get that tip in nicely, but you've still got a barrier to get past once you're in. And forcing won't help. He needs to get nice and relaxed, loosen up and only then can you push past his sphincter. You'll know when you've broken through. And once you're through, you're home free. But GO SLOW. Let him guide you at first, he'll know how much and how hard he wants it. Be patient.

Pegging Tips: Volume 2.

And here we are again, continuing our series of pegging tips for you lovely perverts. Hopefully you recall the first batch of tips, if not, go get a refresher course.

6. After you've satisfied your own needs and built up a fair amount of sexual frustration in your partner, take a moment to strap in. (Don't forget to put a We-Vibe inside that slick, freshly fucked pussy of yours, it'll help make sure you come while you fuck his ass.)

Pegging Tips: Volume 1.

Recently, we shared on Twitter that Rye was begging for a pegging, with the following series of Tweets:

Someone's getting their ass fucked tonight. The name rhymes with Guy. 

I found him in the bedroom, bent over, pants down, waiting expectantly. The strap-on and dildo of choice on the bed next to him. 

Rye will have to wait until after I finish cooking us dinner, but he's preparing with a butt plug as we speak. 

We'll blog about it soon enough! But let's just say he ate my pussy while we waited for the pasta to cook. While his ass vibrated.

We got many, many responses to this, several of them asking us to help guide you through the pegging process with tips and tricks. We'll be doing just that, in a several part post, with pictures to go along with it. You didn't think we'd neglect documenting such an occasion, did you?

1. Have him warm up with a plug. Smaller is fine, but his ass needs to warm up. Listen to him moan and watch him rub on his hardening cock, it's pretty hot.


2. Take that cock and fit it nice and snug inside your pussy.

Violet, or Rye, or both - any suggestions regarding amateur anal for a couple? Tried it for the first time tonight (albeit in the shower), but my girlfriend ended up pretty sore. Any advice would help (lube, position, pace etc.). Cheers!

OH MY. Oh. Shower? OH NO.

Okay. It was a good idea. Steamy, warm, relaxing. All great things. Unfortunately for you and your girlfriend's b-hole, the butt does not self-lubricate. Which means that you need lots of lube for things to go well. And in a shower, any natural moisture or oils or anything that may have helped will be washed away. Which is why she's probably feeling a little tender at the moment. This is an unbelievably common mistake, so you definitely shouldn't feel too badly, but you should probably buy her a bottle of champagne and give her a massage, just to be on the safe side.

What is the biggest cock you ever had in your pussy? Ass?

Call me old-fashioned, but my black cherry got saved for Rye. Don't laugh, I'm serious. I never wanted to wait until I got married to have sex, I think understanding what someone is like while fucking is absolutely key to part of who they are as a human. That being said, it feels pretty special to have Rye be the only man who has ever gained access to that orifice.

Sorry if you guys want me to stop saying orifice. I probably won't.

As for my pussy... 8.5" to 9"? And was not always pleasant. As I am relatively tiny.

Also, I once fucked a guy that was the girth of a squash. Normal length, but wow, was that uncomfortable.

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My wife is warming to the idea of trying anal. Any suggestions for positions that work well for first timers? And of course pictures are always helpful...

What great news! This is a crucial time, because upon your first experience, you could either take all the right steps and make her love it as much as Violet and I both do, or fuck it up horribly and never get access again!

So, given that potential for greatness or ultimate failure, why don't you recap with a post about our first try at anal:

http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com/2010/07/about-anal.html

As for photos, I take it you mean of us. However, we've never really taken any of us in the act. I can, however, offer you this for inspiration:

http://uncommonappetites.blogspot.com/2011/03/your-ass-and-why-you-should-open-it-up.html

And, you know, this photo of a fine, ripe Violet asshole:

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How should a guy prepare for his first anal experience and what should it be? Fingers, vibrator, strap on??

First ever, eh? How exciting!

Well then, Mr. Virgin Asshole, you should DEF start small. And with total control. By which I mean finger. Probably your index or middle.

Go take a nice hot shower, rub on that cock of yours until you start feeling ready to go. Then lube up a finger and slowly, slowly, SLOWLY slide it on up.

There are a few points to get past. First, the asshole itself, then the tighter seal just inside. Don't force it. When your body is ready it will allow you to move further up.

After that, start exploring. And don't forget your cock!

Once you decide if you like it, you might want to invest in a small plug. Then a vibe. Then a strap-on. And probably in that order.

Good luck, you've got me jealous about your virgin experience!

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