Not only is it the title of this very fine video from a lovely couple, but its an important question.
Dudes, if you're intimidated by your partner's dildo, you're really missing out on something special. Her vibrator isn't competing with you. Its working in harmony. Keeping things fresh. Fun. Exploratory. Changing it up sometimes.
After all, no matter how developed these sex toys get, nothing replaces the feel of your skin. The throb and pulse of your hard cock. The veins, bulging and engorged. The feel of your head breaking through so gently. But most importantly, the person attached to that appendage.
So the next time your partner reaches for that toy, encourage her. Join in! Have fun with the warm-up, or a full sex session devoted to toys only. Penis in a hole doesn't have to be the only way to get those rocks off. Variety is the spice!
Oh, and while you're at it, you should probably watch every video this couple made. They're fucking HOT.
**To be clear, while this couple is hot and use a similar style camera to us, this isn't your Violet + Rye. Enjoy anyway!**
Couldn't agree more... on Friday we pulled out the vibrator and waxed candle that turns into oil, both were highly entertaining! Sex toys are meant to be fun, they aren't intimidating if you pay close attention to your partner and how turned on they get!
ReplyDeleteOh my, Rye! Their parts really look like our parts! Thank you for the disclaimer, or even I may have been a bit confused.
ReplyDeleteChris - Preach on. That's the spirit!
- Violet.
Something magical happened with the interwebs and I was actually able to watch this one. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy using toys as they can really change things up.. Also as I am an older guy. It helps. With performance worries.. Just wonder how many others couples enjoy using a vibrating butt plug during regular sex..
ReplyDeleteAh, so happy to hear it, Liza! Hope you enjoyed...
ReplyDeleteCharlie - A very fine point. I bet ti does help as you get older, sort of assuage those performance fears and find ways to finish her off regardless of your cock situation. We're fans of the butt plug during sex for sure!
-Rye
Remember that toys mean play.. A lot of times I have used toys was during foreplay... I love performing Kodak sex on a lady and if you introduce a vibrating egg during makes it even more fun.. Would love to read a blog by you where you have a remote controlled egg in your vagina all day with Rye carrying the remote.. Wonder if you would accuse him of being a sexual assists as one lady did me.. During dinner , everytime she picked up her fork , turned on give... I had lots of fun that day..
ReplyDeleteTotally agree! It's supposed to be fun, just like sex.
ReplyDeleteWe definitely have a remote egg in our possession, but the battery life is always so shitty, it never lasts us the day. And it's not strong enough to make V come, just hard enough to get her REALLY horny, which is okay...
-Rye
Pretty much every session we have includes a toy... which isn't to say we can't do without it, we just know that it can add that little something (i can't be in two places at once) to send either one of us into a mind blowing orgasm.
ReplyDeleteI would recommend to those who might fear the competition to avoid dildos that look like penises. If she prefers that shape look in to getting one that is a little different (width, length, color) or possibly smaller than you are so there is less comparing between the standby and the real thing... she is not likely to compare things, its all in your head ;)
Very good advice! And we just adore all the toy love pouring out! We frequent Babeland and Eden Fantasys, they're like little islands of magic for us, so we're glad to hear so many others feel the same!
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