"I have a question I’d like to hear you answer on the blog, if you want. You mentioned the We-Vibe in relation to pegging (of which, yay!). What is your take on it in general? I’ve been looking to get one for my partner, but it gets mixed reviews online, and she’ll throttle me if I add another toy that doesn’t get used to our overstuffed toybox."By now, it's fairly well documented that Violet enjoys wearing the We-Vibe under her harness when we get into some pegging play. It tucks in there wonderfully, though there are definitely issues with it, mostly related to it being difficult to adjust, speed-wise, once it's all up in there.
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But it SUCKS, like I just said. It's a fucking egg, basically. Which, under a pair of tight pants, looks an awful lot like my vagina shits eggs. The We-Vibe tucks nicely up inside, hugging my G-spot and pulling my clit in for a nice warm hug. But it might not be the same for you. Vaginas are different. Some clits sare closer, which could be even better. But some are further away. Some need less direct stimulation. Some need more, which would be great, in this case.
Ultimately, though, the We-Vibe doesn't come cheap. And with its intended use being a toy that can be worn while you're getting filled with cock, flesh cock or rubber cock, we've never been too big on it for that purpose. Which isn't to say we don't have a ton of fun with it. And would have even more fun with a remote control version. But since we already dropped a chunk of change on one, we're probably not going to take the same chunk and put it down on the We-Vibe III (ok, maybe we will, after all, spring is coming soon).
I agree that it is probably a different fit for different people - but it looks like a fun alternative! I would try it if I had a we-vibe. Not sure how far down on my list that one is though.
ReplyDeleteYep. Hard to fully endorse the thing, but it is fun every once in a while!
DeleteThanks for the shoutout (blush) and the detailed reply. I still think my better half will be irked with yet another potential dust-gatherer in the drawer, but I must admit I'm intrigued. If your main complaint is that the WV is a pain to adjust without a remote, then the Three should be just the ticket. Though I have heard there are some limited-range issues with the controller, making it perhaps less effective as an out-and-about sort of toy. Which is too bad, because that seems like it would be fun, especially if I was the manning the remote. The shop I was going to get it from takes returns, so maybe we'll give it a go. I'll be sure to report back here if we do.
ReplyDeletePlease do! We'd love to know how it works out.
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Just before you rush off for the remote - my boyfriend and I recently made the investment and have been soundly disappointed. The remote does not work properly when the we-vibe is inside; it needs to be pretty damn close to change the settings. It works from far away without a flesh barrier, but just not when inside. Also, and potentially more importantly, the thing is really loud! So loud we thought it was malfunctioning, but our lovely sex-shop employee told us that that is exactly how it's supposed to be. She specifically said that use for public titillation was off the cards, or at least public titillation with any kind of subtlety...!
ReplyDeleteAlso, and a bigger problem for me, is that the we-vibe doesn't stay in place me without a cock keeping it company, meaning it turns sideways or falls out altogether during pegging (maybe doesn't help that I get REALLY wet). Plus it doesn't seem to hug my clit (ie very little stimulation), even with the cock in there too. It did give me some nice g-spot sensations, but they were pretty weak and difficult to repeat. The we-vibe seemed to need constant attention to stay in place and doing what it was supposed to, meaning our hands weren't free for more fun sexy activities...
After all we'd heard about the we-vibe, we were not impressed at all! Of course, one size does not fit all when it comes to vaginas and g-spots and clits, so this could be a personal result rarely shared with others. I'd be interested to know if anyone else has had such a negative experience?
(Must say though Violet, gorgeous gorgeous picture!)
Thank you so much for going into such excellent detail! Sorry to hear how it worked out for you. We too are still on the hunt for an effective remote toy for public fun.
DeleteAnd glad you like the picture! It's one of our favorites, too.
- Violet.
@anon: Those are exactly the complaints about the WV I've heard about elsewhere. Hmm. . . Now I have no idea. Oh, well.
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